Kelly Rojas, 20, feels alive when she helps others. The junior biomedical engineering major joins fellow FIU students in a campus organization that offers musical instruction to groups of individuals with neurological disabilities such as dementia. Herself a guitarist and pianist, she teaches them how to hold and play simple instruments such as tambourines and maracas. The experience provides an outlet for interacting with others to a population for whom social activity is often limited. Rojas takes away lessons that she hopes to one day apply to her professional career.
“I want to help individuals with disabilities through research and nonprofit work,” she said. And she is well on her way. Working on research with Professor Jacob McPherson to learn about the relationship between pain and motor control in stroke victims, Rojas has dreams of going to graduate school and, one day, opening a therapy center that will help people with a variety of disabilities.
Rojas’ own challenging journey, though of a very different nature, began years ago in her native Venezuela, where her parents earned a comfortable livelihood as jewelers. Their success, unfortunately, caught the attention of criminals at a time when many with money were abducted for ransom. When her father disappeared one day, the family handed over a large sum for his return. Within a year her father was kidnapped yet again, and the harrowing experience this time drove the Rojases to relocate to Miami in 2009. In hopes of starting anew, her parents purchased a dry cleaning business, but the global financial crisis eventually forced the company under as it did so many others. The strain contributed to her parents’ divorce, and her father returned alone to South America. Fending for themselves, Rojas and her mother for a year shared a bed in a storage unit, a far cry from the big house in which they had all once lived together in Venezuela.
Rojas didn’t let her school friends know of the family upheaval, which was exacerbated by her personal battle to accept her sexual orientation. Gays and lesbians are not widely accepted in her native Venezuela, and she felt that coming out would simply place another burden on her mother. At her lowest point, Rojas attempted suicide.
“I struggled to see a future,” she said, “and I thought I could end everything.” Only by recognizing the sacrifices her mother had made on her behalf did Rojas find it within herself to finally decide to go on. Rojas eventually received counseling and was diagnosed with post-traumatic stress disorder as a result of the tumult she had faced at such a young age.
Then in her junior year of high school, she learned of an organization that would have an important positive impact on her. The Best Buddies Club set her up to begin working with individuals with disabilities.
“I learned the struggles of those individuals, and it helped ease my stress because I understood they struggled more [than I did],” Rojas said. “I was struggling because of limitations I was giving myself. But when I got to interact with them, my whole perspective on life became more positive.”
The experience of helping others motivated her to try harder in school. She raised her GPA by nearly a whole point during her senior year and earned admission to FIU. There she continued to keep up her grades and earned a McNair research scholarship, a prestigious award that connected her with a mentor and set her on a path to graduate school. Her classroom success led to her tutoring other students, and she went on to on volunteer work with the YES Institute, a nonprofit organization dedicated to preventing youth suicide.
“She has decided to live an authentic life,” said Jeannette Cruz, director of Student Support Services, an office that helps low-income, first-generation college students such as Rojas reach graduation by providing one-on-one guidance through advising, counseling and tutoring. (She also receives mentoring through the campus-based LGBTQ+ Mentoring Program.) “She is very hard working and structured,” said Cruz, who notes Rojas’ resilience. “I know she’s going to go places.”
Rojas has no doubt that connecting with others has helped her find her true calling in life.
“I want to get involved in communities that help empower others, like those clubs did with me,” she said. “Getting involved was part of finding me.”